My husband is what you would call a "Hard" man. He is not warm and fuzzy. I have learned many ways to cope and live with the things he says and how he can act. I know that I love him and am secure in that fact. I have to have the faith everyday that we have a life together and children together. I choose not to lie for him. If he is going to say something that I know he doesnt mean I will be honest to friends and family. I get asked often how I could be with a man like him. The answer is simple.... Love. Love is clearly not a rational thing it makes you something different then who you were. It takes courage to follow your heart.
The best protection any woman can have … is courage. – Elizabeth Cady Stanton