I dont know why he does it. Or if he even does it on purpose. But, almost everyday my son "Misplaces" his binki. Which turns into the END OF THE WORLD! I have at least 4 I know of in this house. Yet at most times I am lucky if I can tell you where even 2 is. When I give in and give him his back up binki he shows up with 2 in his hands. After him yelling at me searching for over an hour. I have been doing a good job of weening him off he only has it half the day now and never when we are out. But I know he still really depends on it for comfort so I do not want to push the topic. But, Ahh I dream of the non-binki days.
This is my phrase today after getting yelled at by two children for trying to sit down to eat. I explained to my kids that if they get to sit and eat then momma does to. This is something I never thought I would have to explain to someone lol. I know that this is something I will have to remind them from time to time.
I understand that my life is not "Typical" I spend most weeks alone with no one to talk to but children and a laptop. Most days I am extremely content with the way I live. Other days I do wish for a bit more. There is no shame in wishing for more. I think everyone does at one time or another. When I do it is usually for more affection from my husband or free time for myself. I believe once the kids are older both would be easier. For now though I will do my best to fight for a hot bubble bath once a week and
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